Source: Messages - Cristina to Chris Frisz.pdf · Extracted 518 flagged messages from 33,975 total
| # | Timestamp | Message | Flag(s) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | 10/13/2020 6:34:48 PM | For the record, you can be friends with whom ever you want. After my divorce I was branded to believe opposite sex friendships are inappropriate when you’re in a relationship. However, I trust you and I’m not a jealous person, nor do I feel threatened or any other negativity. What you’ve experienced from me recently was just a triggered response brought on by past trauma. Absolutely nothing to do with you and our blooming loving relationship. Just wanted to make that clear. | Fear/intimidation |
| 2 | 10/16/2020 10:55:15 AM | Please apply, you never know | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 3 | 10/16/2020 4:05:13 PM | These fucking tires have been the fucking worst this year! | Profanity/Insult |
| 4 | 10/19/2020 3:43:58 PM | I thought maybe by sharing I’d already voted they’d leave me alone and stop trying to convince me otherwise. So much for that lol | Hostile dismissal |
| 5 | 10/20/2020 12:23:46 PM | They say I’m believing gossip and lies! Really? They’re calling Biden names like dirty old man and a pedophile with zero evidence! Baseless stupid comments | Demeaning/Insult |
| 6 | 10/30/2020 12:17:07 PM | I’m only human, I’m not a fucking machine | Profanity/Insult |
| 7 | 10/30/2020 3:44:38 PM | It’s like you don’t give a shit! You know I’m overwhelmed because I have to make up the hours from taking that test, I’m not feeling well, now I have to move on my own with my friend who can’t lift anything remotely heavy. I haven’t had good sleep since I don’t know when because of the coughing, I’m irritable, I’m tired, my whole body aches. I’m suffering from back to back migraines. I’m trying to figure out how I’m going to balance motherhood, my job and moving. I’ve been moving bills over trying to figure out all of the logistics. Studying for an exams etc.This has not been a joy ride for me. Things have been adding up and my cup runneth over from stress! I’m at my wits end | Profanity/Insult |
| 8 | 11/2/2020 9:53:37 AM | Okay, I just wanted them to know where I’m coming from and why I cannot in good conscience support that man or call him my president. Your aunt is under the impression that I’m an uneducated voter triggering my patience. When everything she’s posted has been taken down by snopes because of false news Allegations! What I have are REAL court documents babe! Not some bullshit some asshole wrote while scratching his ass! | Profanity/Insult |
| 9 | 11/2/2020 4:47:52 PM | The timing of all of this fucking sucks | Profanity/Insult |
| 10 | 11/4/2020 11:53:44 AM | You never know | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 11 | 11/21/2020 7:11:42 PM | If you could bring me back something I’d appreciate it, I’m working on this damn project of a fucking closet! | Profanity/Insult |
| 12 | 11/29/2020 10:48:58 AM | Babe, you were right. You never saw this tree at my place before because I bought it in January. You didn’t really start coming over my place until a few weeks after New Years Eve lol. My memory was off lol | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 13 | 12/3/2020 4:09:41 PM | You never responded about the washer | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 14 | 12/14/2020 2:08:08 PM | 104!!! Insanity | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 15 | 12/21/2020 7:03:03 PM | He died of Covid, left behind a beautiful wife and two toddler girls. So unbelievably sad. Shit is real! | Profanity/Insult |
| 16 | 1/6/2021 3:50:16 PM | They’re climbing the Whitehouse with guns, yelling Trump won the election and threatening to kill democrats in senate. Fucking lunatics! | Profanity/InsultFear/intimidation |
| 17 | 1/6/2021 3:50:40 PM | Where the fuck are the police now? | Profanity/Insult |
| 18 | 1/6/2021 3:55:32 PM | He lost by over 1100 votes they re-counted in Georgia and he lost again, accept the L get the fuck out! | Profanity/Insult |
| 19 | 1/6/2021 3:58:45 PM | The last of the class in the Republican Party! Rant over! Had to vent. Where was the tear gas, and riots over this shit when BLM they went crazy beating protesters and making arrests, but allow anarchy over this insanity! | Profanity/Insult |
| 20 | 1/11/2021 2:33:18 PM | I have to make up for another loser teacher’s shortcomings! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 21 | 1/13/2021 2:31:48 PM | Woo hoo!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 22 | 1/13/2021 5:03:10 PM | You always get there, it’s a pattern. Don’t let this ruin your life and job opportunities on the horizon. You can control it! | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 23 | 1/13/2021 5:08:05 PM | I meant you always get it bad when you’re over there | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 24 | 1/18/2021 1:17:43 PM | Traffic is a bitch | Profanity/Insult |
| 25 | 2/18/2021 10:21:38 AM | It pisses me off too! Like they don’t give a fuck! Not taking this seriously! Thank God we take our vitamins etc. I’m praying we’re okay, especially you. That cough! | Profanity/Insult |
| 26 | 2/18/2021 10:22:20 AM | It’s that fucking Trump mentality! We don’t have billions of dollars to spend in hospital bills | Profanity/Insult |
| 27 | 2/18/2021 10:22:28 AM | I’m so pissed! | Profanity/Insult |
| 28 | 2/18/2021 10:29:52 AM | Yeah! When????? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 29 | 2/18/2021 10:33:00 AM | I don’t wanna see anybody until everybody’s vaccinated from here on out! I’m so fucking pissed! | Profanity/Insult |
| 30 | 2/18/2021 10:38:43 AM | I just think it’s so funny how your parents were so worried about you getting it from Jacob. The fucking irony! This is what happens when you don’t follow CDC guidelines | Profanity/Insult |
| 31 | 2/18/2021 10:39:48 AM | I always make sure he wears a mask, you can’t take this shit lightly. | Profanity/Insult |
| 32 | 2/18/2021 10:54:56 AM | I called paramount and they said it wasn’t that long of a wait. I just think it’s fucked up that you knew and you didn’t bother to tell me before you fucking left so that I could get tested as well, you waited to text me later which is fucked up because I am already working | Profanity/Insult |
| 33 | 2/18/2021 10:55:30 AM | You getting tested as a priority not going to the fucking dealership and driving Miss Daisy | Profanity/Insult |
| 34 | 2/18/2021 10:56:57 AM | Is this how it’s going to be like when we’re married you fucking driving everybody the fuck around! Your immediate family is not going to be a priority! And you want to be a dad?? Really????? | Profanity/InsultAggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 35 | 2/18/2021 1:06:18 PM | Are you fucking kidding me?! I said no I didn’t want to meet you at the Toyota dealership, that I was going to drive myself to get tested | Profanity/Insult |
| 36 | 3/4/2021 10:49:51 AM | Fuck UCF! Unbelievable | Profanity/Insult |
| 37 | 3/4/2021 10:52:43 AM | Fuck them! They made enough money off me | Profanity/Insult |
| 38 | 3/5/2021 12:53:09 PM | Have you seen the movie Crazy Stupid Love with Steve Carell | Demeaning/Insult |
| 39 | 5/6/2021 3:54:26 PM | You cheater lol, just kidding love. Do you! | Betrayal accusation |
| 40 | 6/28/2021 11:21:50 PM | I needed to see this. I need to find my peace and everything will fall into place. I know in my heart if we keep faith everything will work out and all this worrying is worthless. I appreciate you being there for me and I’m grateful for everything we have and continue to cultivate and manifest the life of our dreams together. I know along the way there will be obstacles and road blocks, but we will overcome them. I was just holding onto a lot and feeling heavy hearted, but I have a lot to be grateful for and I’ve come a long way. I need to recognize how far I’ve come and what I’ve overcome. I think I expect people to have the same heart as me and am disappointed when they don’t reciprocate what I give. Being resilient and strong can be exhausting too. Because of your anxiety I feel this immense amount of pressure to always be the strong one in the relationship, but I’m only human and I break down too. Who can I talk to if I can’t talk to you? Maybe we can talk about this tomorrow? | Demeaning/Insult |
| 41 | 7/1/2021 1:49:32 PM | Hey babe the stupid Myers Briggs test messed up my browser and I need it to default back to Google so when you get a chance if you could help me with that when you get back no rush | Demeaning/Insult |
| 42 | 7/13/2021 12:19:39 PM | I’ve sent the writing samples to Makeen Technologies and Raytheon. They both wanted me to write for their company, I was waiting to read them to you, but I need to get shit done | Profanity/Insult |
| 43 | 8/16/2021 9:47:35 PM | It doesn’t help that you always act so weird, distant and cold towards me when you’re with them. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 44 | 8/18/2021 12:49:57 PM | So…a little bit of a parenting fail. Jacob’s book has a few curse words in it, not the big ones but stuff like “shit” and goddamnit” but on the flip side he loves it and is reading everyday and morning for fun! He’s really enjoying it lol | Profanity/Insult |
| 45 | 8/21/2021 7:42:47 PM | Why???? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 46 | 9/1/2021 10:32:56 AM | What the hell???? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 47 | 9/1/2021 10:37:58 AM | It’s so dumb you have to laugh! Clearly I have a family, posted all over my gram! People are so gross and disrespectful for real! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 48 | 9/7/2021 12:44:47 PM | Very controlling | Character attack |
| 49 | 10/13/2021 4:06:28 PM | Okay, thank you for letting me know. I’m just so grateful it’s working. Team fuck Humira! | Profanity/Insult |
| 50 | 10/18/2021 9:27:38 AM | I hate you lol | Expressed hatred |
| 51 | 10/22/2021 8:43:52 PM | Because you know you always need a snack after lol | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 52 | 11/11/2021 12:50:00 PM | If it’s not permanent I’m not applying, I don’t give a shit how much it pays. Contract is code for we can’t afford you long term | Profanity/Insult |
| 53 | 11/11/2021 12:51:19 PM | I wouldn’t be going through this if I had gone with Sodexo, I was so confident that if I did a good job I’d be permanent. Well I did a fucking great job and not certain that’s on the table | Profanity/Insult |
| 54 | 11/11/2021 12:59:47 PM | I am grateful but I’m scared because I used to be grateful for some down time now I’m paranoid about it, knowing they probably can’t afford to keep me | Character attack |
| 55 | 11/12/2021 11:33:26 AM | I shit my camera off, this meeting is loooonnnnnggggg | Profanity/Insult |
| 56 | 11/20/2021 4:31:28 PM | I feel stupid waiting, when I could’ve made plans with other friends | Demeaning/Insult |
| 57 | 11/20/2021 4:34:06 PM | I’m waiting for you to show you what bought you like an idiot, excited about Gaylord Palms et | Demeaning/Insult |
| 58 | 12/9/2021 1:18:31 PM | Good! You need tough love sometimes. You’ve been babied and underestimated your entire life! Fuck that notion! You’re strong and very intelligent, own that shit! You’re a Boss bae! | Profanity/Insult |
| 59 | 12/15/2021 12:39:07 PM | I have a meeting at 1:30pm, I just have to fix my face and get in the right mindset, because right now my mood is: fuck it, fuck them and fuck this! | Profanity/Insult |
| 60 | 12/17/2021 3:51:48 PM | A lot of negative comments over a shitty calendar blog that was assigned to me at the last minute | Profanity/Insult |
| 61 | 12/18/2021 8:12:29 PM | I really don’t trust you. I feel like the glass has been shattered and my rosy glasses are off. You’ve lied to me too much in this relationship and this was the final straw. I don’t know what to do, I don’t feel safe and my walls are up. I was better off alone- where it’s safe. Or with someone who tells me the truth. | Betrayal accusation |
| 62 | 12/18/2021 8:14:34 PM | Soul mates don’t lie to each other. I feel really dumb for always defending you. You may not have a brain disorder but you have a lying disorder! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 63 | 12/19/2021 1:01:02 AM | I need to know if you fucking did the treatment or not | Profanity/Insult |
| 64 | 12/19/2021 1:02:14 AM | Then it’s probably a no, how could you be so fucking negligent and irresponsible!? That’s why they’re bringing it up! | Profanity/Insult |
| 65 | 12/19/2021 1:02:45 AM | I know that you have some memory issues, but this is just plain dumb | Demeaning/Insult |
| 66 | 12/29/2021 6:18:45 PM | Lol, I know. I still feel like shit too | Profanity/Insult |
| 67 | 12/30/2021 6:13:06 AM | I was reading these medical journals that tried clinical trials of ivermectin in India and South America to see if it cured symptoms of the virus, only 3% saw improvement when taking 3mg of the drug, however 2 of the 3 patients also had a stomach virus with roundworms along with Covid-19 symptoms. I did a deep dive because I wanted to seek the relevancy of this drug especially since Dr. Too is one a low dose to it. Anything exceeding 3mg can be toxic and can kill you. I understand why Dr. To believes in it and takes a small dose. It was discovered on the gulf of Japan, and it great in preventing parasites in those who eat really exotic foods like different types of raw fish, weird meats like camel and elk, jellyfish etc. However the number of people who have had to get their stomach pumped by taking ivermectin not prescribed by a doctor or pharmacist are alarming! So I say we stay away from it. We don’t have parasites, ringworm or lice. | Character attack |
| 68 | 1/23/2022 2:34:23 PM | I’m just paranoid because I want the baby to have fresh everything lol | Character attack |
| 69 | 1/26/2022 12:09:20 PM | What was $179!!??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 70 | 2/18/2022 12:14:48 PM | I know my hormones are crazy right now, but I don’t want to lose my voice and get lost in trying to please my partner and sacrifice my happiness. I feel like when we talk about things I say my piece but you always end up getting your way. I think we need to compromise better, and I can’t always cave in to accommodate you. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 71 | 3/13/2022 5:25:07 PM | They clearly still don’t understand that I’m your wife and they still think you’re fucking single | Profanity/Insult |
| 72 | 3/31/2022 2:05:40 PM | they really concern me babe because at first the call was really upsetting because they were like you have to come back in and get your blood drawn again because there wasn’t enough blood and I was like ??? I’ve already gone back in and done this and she’s like oh I’m sorry I was looking at the old screen I meant that there’s going to be a delay. | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 73 | 4/9/2022 12:12:20 PM | I’m so tired of feeling behind. If I have to go back to teaching in order to get a W-2 I think after the baby that’s probably my best bet, I’m just so tired of the shit | Profanity/Insult |
| 74 | 5/5/2022 2:48:41 PM | Oh shit, so sorry bae | Profanity/Insult |
| 75 | 5/9/2022 7:28:20 PM | My mom is helping you with your phone bill too, it’s just not right that they don’t give a shit! | Profanity/Insult |
| 76 | 5/17/2022 1:44:15 PM | God, I fucking hate them | Profanity/Insult |
| 77 | 5/29/2022 11:50:10 AM | BookNook is making me do so much shit! | Profanity/Insult |
| 78 | 6/8/2022 3:38:56 PM | What I don’t understand about your family is why is it okay for Lisa to never work and I’m pregnant and everyone expects me to make more than you and carry the family. WTF I’m the mom the woman of the household. What’s up with that fucked up mentality???? | Profanity/InsultAggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 79 | 6/10/2022 5:01:46 PM | Instead of wasting time finding ways to spend money you should be trying to figure out how to make more money. Stop researching shit we have no money to invest in. For my pregnancy I should be getting acupuncture and prenatal massages to maintain a healthy pregnancy that’s priority right now. You’re going to have us broke with all your mental health and medical expenses | Profanity/Insult |
| 80 | 6/10/2022 5:02:51 PM | I’m so fucking annoyed with your unrealistic priorities | Profanity/Insult |
| 81 | 6/13/2022 6:42:35 PM | I’m gonna text your mom I don’t wanna shower from her and I don’t want shit from her fuck them | Profanity/Insult |
| 82 | 6/20/2022 7:52:46 PM | This is what I want to say, if we don’t get to talk: Chris said that you shared if we had an issue to just communicate and pick up the phone. Well, we tried. I’m tired of carrying this around and just want to explain my case and put this to rest. I have to take care of my mental health for me, my marriage and most importantly the sake of my baby, who feels what I feel. What Kelly said was very ignorant and comes across as racist. I’m not some uneducated, undocumented immigrant that has limited options for employment to be spoken about in such a degrading manner. I’m an educated woman with a wealth of professional work experience and publications to my name. I’m 9 credits shy of my Master’s degree, which is why I was eligible to be an adjunct professor at Seminole State College while simultaneously teaching highschool full time to support my family.Not to give you my resume, but I’ve been working since I was 16 years old, so for someone I consider a stranger, someone who knows nothing about me, to call me lazy regarding my work ethic, and tell me to go work at a fast food restaurant is a trigger for me, that’s not only disrespectful but disturbingly false. Begging the question, “who does she think she is?” My parents are beyond livid to learn about this especially knowing my work ethic. I don’t know where she’s getting her information from, but it was not coincidental that you both just returned from visiting. Whatever the case, it was hurtful and I will not stand to put my children around individuals who disrespect their mother. If the relationship is going to be disingenuous and toxic I’d rather not have a relationship at all. | Character attack |
| 83 | 6/24/2022 3:35:34 PM | Are you just doing blood work or??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 84 | 6/24/2022 4:39:15 PM | I feel all this pressure from them, when in reality I shouldn’t give a fuck about what they think | Profanity/Insult |
| 85 | 7/4/2022 11:51:39 AM | Sorry bae, I’m just frustrated too because it’s getting harder to shave my private parts and I have to put on a fucking bathing suit when I don’t want to | Profanity/Insult |
| 86 | 7/22/2022 10:57:21 AM | I had to cash out part of my retirement to help us out and you don’t give a shit! I’m tired of you blaming your mental health and not supporting your family. I’m not asking you to support us for life! I’m asking you to support us temporarily and it’s beyond disappointing that you can’t even do that! | Profanity/Insult |
| 87 | 7/22/2022 11:03:28 AM | I need you to be a man and fix this. Fuck happiness, we need stability. Our baby needs stability and health insurance. | Profanity/Insult |
| 88 | 7/22/2022 11:04:24 AM | Make things right with this job, fix your reputation and stop lying to me | Direct lie accusation |
| 89 | 7/26/2022 7:52:32 PM | The blue pills, but they have the same main ingredient as Tylenol, now I’m paranoid and suffering through the pain | Character attack |
| 90 | 7/30/2022 11:45:28 AM | Buying that shitty house only benefits him not us | Profanity/Insult |
| 91 | 7/30/2022 11:53:30 AM | He’s looking at shitty duplexes to flip that benefit him | Profanity/Insult |
| 92 | 8/6/2022 4:07:23 PM | I don’t deserve this. I deserve better. I’m a good wife and you allow your family to treat me like shit. When I’ve made a million sacrifices for us. I could’ve ended things between us before we got married and I caught you in a bunch of lies | Profanity/Insult |
| 93 | 8/6/2022 4:13:44 PM | I shouldn’t have to defend myself against your family, that’s your job be a fucking man please! | Profanity/Insult |
| 94 | 8/8/2022 8:56:53 AM | This fucking sucks we’re in a long ass line outside | Profanity/Insult |
| 95 | 9/3/2022 10:55:04 PM | I hope it’s a fucking girl | Profanity/Insult |
| 96 | 10/17/2022 12:40:44 PM | I’m not fucking entertaining people | Profanity/Insult |
| 97 | 10/17/2022 12:44:33 PM | You Don know what it’s like, I’m a prisoner in my home and a slave to our baby, I’m going nuts with all this clutter everywhere, I want people to stop bringing us shit we don’t need, like things! Unless we can eat it I want it here | Profanity/Insult |
| 98 | 10/17/2022 12:45:06 PM | Jacob has enough shit | Profanity/Insult |
| 99 | 10/17/2022 12:45:29 PM | We need to figure out his Wacom or return that shit | Profanity/Insult |
| 100 | 10/17/2022 12:45:49 PM | He doesn’t need a Baptist Bible or whatever shit she’s bringing like he doesn’t need it | Profanity/Insult |
| 101 | 10/17/2022 12:47:20 PM | But I’m up all hours of the day and when I do get to relax I’m cleaning or organizing there’s no fucking way I can work right now, not even a part time! | Profanity/Insult |
| 102 | 10/20/2022 1:19:27 PM | Awesome! The famous chocolates you always talk about, now I get to try them! Yum! | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 103 | 11/14/2022 1:11:09 PM | I’m in charge of snacks since you always eat what I buy lol | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 104 | 11/19/2022 9:04:14 PM | I didn’t shut you down, I feel like you’re gaslighting me, I’m the one that felt not good enough, then after you explained her skill set I realized that it was more advanced than mine. I don’t know how to build a website etc. So you were right. | Character attack |
| 105 | 11/21/2022 3:04:55 PM | Bae that Sam Smith song is disgusting. I listened to the whole thing this time, there’s no way you didn’t know what it was about. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 106 | 11/21/2022 3:14:46 PM | Someone ever try to do that to me I’ll put their unholy ass in an early grace, don’t fuck around to find out! | Profanity/Insult |
| 107 | 11/21/2022 3:15:42 PM | Someone ever try to do that to me I’ll put their unholy ass in an early grave, don’t fuck around to find out | Profanity/Insult |
| 108 | 12/11/2022 5:32:47 PM | You leave me here for the baby for the majority of the day I’m running errands with him etc. You know they’re fucking sick and you don’t give a shit about my health or the baby’s health. I know you’re inside the house. It’s just fucking stupid, you better not get sick. I’m so fitted of this! | Profanity/InsultDemeaning/InsultWarning/intimidation |
| 109 | 12/11/2022 5:34:18 PM | I’m on my period, my wrist fucking hurts I’m trying to buy stuff to keep us healthy | Profanity/Insult |
| 110 | 12/11/2022 5:36:31 PM | I’m just sick and tired of you always finding an excuse to get out for hours and leave me alone with the baby. And having Jacob step in for you when he is the brother not the father. It makes me anxious when I go back to work what excuses are you going to have? You’re not gonna be doing none of this freelance bullshit so there is no excuse to be out for hours | Blame/accusation patternHostile dismissal |
| 111 | 12/11/2022 5:40:55 PM | You never put yourself in my shoes. I haven’t even been able to shower today | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 112 | 12/11/2022 5:43:12 PM | You are the reason I’m miserable asshole! | Profanity/Insult |
| 113 | 1/17/2023 5:37:25 PM | DeSantis is getting rid of a lot of diversity stuff and that’s hurting a lot of minorities in the workforce. I fucking hate him now | Profanity/Insult |
| 114 | 2/20/2023 2:55:52 PM | So??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 115 | 2/23/2023 5:55:57 PM | Do you remember controlling yourself? | Character attack |
| 116 | 3/3/2023 7:18:21 PM | I wiped down the changing pad with alcohol the bath water was yellow so disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 117 | 3/4/2023 11:46:03 AM | Next time please listen to me mom knows best! Always !!!!? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 118 | 3/4/2023 11:46:36 AM | I hate these fucking diapers and you should’ve gone to Target for the right formula | Profanity/Insult |
| 119 | 3/4/2023 11:47:07 AM | Now I’m excessively cleaning shit from every fucking surface in this damn house | Profanity/Insult |
| 120 | 3/8/2023 9:16:28 AM | Where did you go? Why are you always leaving? | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 121 | 3/10/2023 2:47:26 PM | Ask your fucking parents tell them what you did with Semrush | Profanity/Insult |
| 122 | 3/10/2023 3:02:54 PM | People don’t like that. That’s stupid how would you like to be paid like that? | Demeaning/Insult |
| 123 | 3/29/2023 12:24:31 PM | Do you see what I mean how she wastes so much time on shit that’s not part of the job | Profanity/Insult |
| 124 | 3/29/2023 4:35:55 PM | Fuck that | Profanity/Insult |
| 125 | 3/29/2023 4:36:31 PM | She stresses me the fuck out | Profanity/Insult |
| 126 | 3/29/2023 4:47:47 PM | She fucking better because I am so fucking done | Profanity/Insult |
| 127 | 3/29/2023 4:48:56 PM | She’s making me so fucking mad I can’t take it | Profanity/Insult |
| 128 | 3/29/2023 4:49:32 PM | I’m serious I’m going to shit with your family nothing | Profanity/Insult |
| 129 | 3/29/2023 4:51:53 PM | You can’t keep taking shit from them either | Profanity/Insult |
| 130 | 3/29/2023 5:33:04 PM | Yeah right??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 131 | 3/31/2023 1:14:48 PM | It’s a big one so I still want to get all the hard shit done | Profanity/Insult |
| 132 | 4/9/2023 5:26:16 PM | You’re too controlling and psycho about us going to church | Character attack |
| 133 | 4/22/2023 10:21:32 AM | I don’t have Google maps or Spotify etc. I have to listen to free pandora and have shitty free apps | Profanity/Insult |
| 134 | 4/24/2023 2:37:22 PM | Today is fucking crazy bae, I haven’t been able to come up for air | Profanity/Insult |
| 135 | 4/25/2023 4:41:15 PM | When shit like this happens I hear her voice in my head and it makes me angry. Like I don’t deserve happiness when I know in my heart I do. | Profanity/Insult |
| 136 | 4/25/2023 6:32:19 PM | While I’m stuck eating disgusting vegan pizza that upsets my stomach | Demeaning/Insult |
| 137 | 4/25/2023 6:33:14 PM | Fine just let me start if I’m the one busting my ass with a baby in working my fucking ass off | Profanity/Insult |
| 138 | 4/29/2023 11:36:36 AM | Hey bae, I’m leaving I shit down my tent etc. I’ll be home soon | Profanity/Insult |
| 139 | 5/7/2023 3:55:37 PM | You never told me that day so I was curious | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 140 | 5/31/2023 3:58:55 PM | Omg I’m sorry bae that’s so aggravating holy shit | Profanity/Insult |
| 141 | 6/15/2023 3:58:31 PM | That guy is a dick! You can tell he hates kids | Profanity/Insult |
| 142 | 6/19/2023 4:22:01 PM | But honestly, I’m starting to feel like it doesn’t work. Either way we have to take legal action. | Legal threat |
| 143 | 6/19/2023 4:22:13 PM | I think that’s the only way that we’re gonna scare them is my threatening to take legal action | Legal threatFear/intimidation |
| 144 | 6/19/2023 4:23:03 PM | Should I say something like my brothers, a lawyer and DR Horton is giving us no choice but to seek legal action | Legal threat |
| 145 | 6/19/2023 8:30:47 PM | Why don’t you bring him up!!!? I’ve been down there with him for hours while you slept etc. Where’s my me time? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 146 | 6/21/2023 12:11:49 PM | No cheating over here | Betrayal accusation |
| 147 | 6/22/2023 5:02:19 PM | So dumb | Demeaning/Insult |
| 148 | 6/26/2023 9:02:19 AM | Hello??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 149 | 6/30/2023 2:23:43 PM | Fucking Republican dumbasses | Profanity/Insult |
| 150 | 7/3/2023 7:16:03 PM | I’m sorry I overreacted about the cookies. I just feel like you always think you know best and I don’t feel heard in a lot of things, many I have been right about. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 151 | 7/3/2023 10:47:31 PM | I don’t know, I do know that I love you and I’m committed to you for the rest of my life, so I just want to learn from this and move on. You’re my best friend, I’m not perfect and neither are you, but we’re perfect for each other. I’m hurt that you shared our marriage squabble with your friend, I think you need to be more protective of me and mindful of what we are to each other even when you’re mad at me. At the end of the day, I love and respect you always. I just want that unconditional love to be reciprocated. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 152 | 7/19/2023 4:36:22 PM | You’re being such a jerk, you don’t appreciate shit! Don’t even talk to me when you get back. I’m done! | Profanity/Insult |
| 153 | 7/31/2023 12:56:44 PM | I’m so sick and tired of this being the thing with our shit like things just keep fucking disappearing | Profanity/Insult |
| 154 | 7/31/2023 12:57:14 PM | Who’s throwing my shit away??? | Profanity/InsultAggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 155 | 8/3/2023 4:01:11 PM | I keep having to help my mom and I have to get this shit done. Figured out mosaic all on my own. Thank you so much for your help and I am still working on redcoats Grant that’s due tomorrow. | Profanity/Insult |
| 156 | 8/15/2023 2:07:54 PM | That’s stupid | Demeaning/Insult |
| 157 | 8/15/2023 8:09:18 PM | We have shit to do too | Profanity/Insult |
| 158 | 8/17/2023 12:43:58 PM | I always feel mean girl vibes from Geena in the grant meetings. Anytime anyone else ask a question she caters to them and me she tries to make me look dumb and I’m the newbie to the team, so technically I should have the most questions. Thank God I have Gabe | Demeaning/Insult |
| 159 | 8/21/2023 8:09:19 PM | Do you have a family? You’re not a young entrepreneur single going out downtown every night? Fuck that! | Profanity/Insult |
| 160 | 8/21/2023 8:14:38 PM | You cannot have it all I am not your slave. You chose family and used me a vessel so be a fucking dad and be home with your son | Profanity/Insult |
| 161 | 8/21/2023 8:17:24 PM | You quit that shit tonight! Or you lose your family | Profanity/Insult |
| 162 | 8/21/2023 9:02:58 PM | Really????? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 163 | 8/21/2023 9:05:47 PM | You never say that | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 164 | 8/27/2023 1:06:43 PM | Fuck this guy | Profanity/Insult |
| 165 | 9/1/2023 12:49:21 PM | ??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 166 | 9/2/2023 9:35:40 AM | It’s a shitty double standard | Profanity/Insult |
| 167 | 9/2/2023 9:36:42 AM | So because I don’t have perks like that I get shit? | Profanity/Insult |
| 168 | 9/2/2023 9:37:50 AM | You’re the one calling me a bitch and a Dick etc. Being so disrespectful when all I said was you’re acting selfish | Profanity/Insult |
| 169 | 9/2/2023 9:38:52 AM | I’m on fucking contract I don’t know that I’ll have those perks | Profanity/Insult |
| 170 | 9/2/2023 9:58:21 AM | This isn’t just about your this is a metaphor for my life and I’m finally saying fuck that! Why not me too! | Profanity/Insult |
| 171 | 9/5/2023 9:58:07 AM | This hold is fucking ridiculous | Profanity/Insult |
| 172 | 9/5/2023 10:08:31 AM | I’m watching cruz, waiting on hold I keep getting emails and texts to complete that fickimg thing!!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 173 | 9/6/2023 7:43:22 PM | No, it’s people doing that for the world to see, nothing sacred, beautiful or private about it. It’s disgusting. I was really looking forward to making love to you, but now I’m disgusted that you’re fantasizing about other women and it doesn’t make me feel better that they’re Latina, I couldn’t care less | Demeaning/Insult |
| 174 | 9/6/2023 7:48:08 PM | Stop trying to minimize my feelings and gaslight me I’m not yelling at you or calling you names I know that this ruins marriages | Character attack |
| 175 | 9/6/2023 7:58:17 PM | See now you’re just making me angry because before kids I and my body were fucking drop dead gorgeous I could pull anyone I wanted and I had a hot girl group too and we’ve all had this conversation about porn ruining sex, marriages and relationships. | Profanity/InsultHostile dismissal |
| 176 | 9/6/2023 8:42:03 PM | You’re being emotionally abusive by saying your ex liked it rough and she watched porn with you? You didn’t marry her though did you? | Character attack |
| 177 | 9/6/2023 8:45:30 PM | You are cruel and purposely trying to hurt me with zero empathy or remorse | Direct personal attack |
| 178 | 9/6/2023 8:53:04 PM | Come up here and talk to me this is stupid | Demeaning/Insult |
| 179 | 9/8/2023 3:29:52 PM | I think I need a break from instagram I think it might be too toxic some of the content | Character attack |
| 180 | 9/11/2023 8:19:59 PM | You’re acting like an idiot. I’m your biggest supporter that’s so stupid! You just need to communicate better. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 181 | 9/18/2023 10:36:34 AM | What the actual fuck! | Profanity/Insult |
| 182 | 9/18/2023 10:38:40 AM | I didn’t mean to be I’m just as sick as you are and running on fumes but I have to fucking push myself | Profanity/Insult |
| 183 | 9/18/2023 10:39:20 AM | You took off today my car still needs cause I still need to buy the babies formula. I have to do all this on boarding shot and I need to make sure that my head is Clear. I’m scared because I have a lot of shit that I need to be focused on today and it’s too much. | Profanity/Insult |
| 184 | 9/18/2023 10:40:44 AM | I did!!!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 185 | 9/18/2023 10:46:42 AM | A day or two!??? I start officially tomorrow and I feel like shit! I can’t take off when I’m new thanks for understanding | Profanity/InsultAggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 186 | 9/18/2023 10:47:26 AM | Fuck being sick go to work! How would you like that? | Profanity/Insult |
| 187 | 9/18/2023 10:49:44 AM | Fuck you! Im tired of everyone depending on me because I’m so strong and resilient fuck that! I’m exhausted and I need rest too! I’m a woman not your man! | Profanity/Insult |
| 188 | 9/18/2023 10:52:40 AM | You never let me sleep in if I don’t get up and take care of the baby in the family it won’t get done | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 189 | 9/18/2023 1:49:11 PM | There were times as I was bleeding out my placenta that you made me feel like you didn’t want our beautiful baby and that to me felt like the biggest punch in the gut and worse than any form of abuse I’ve ever endured in my life. You made me feel worthless and that me sacrificing my body and putting my life on the line was worth nothing to you. You can tell George that’s why! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 190 | 9/19/2023 8:59:22 AM | Bae you never got gas for my car sad | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 191 | 9/24/2023 2:09:15 PM | You always have to check, it looks like we have to tell Tobin because you can even ask Jacob. We close it twice to make sure it closed all the way down and didn’t go back up. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 192 | 9/26/2023 12:44:36 PM | With several of these ??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 193 | 9/26/2023 5:14:51 PM | We’re most likely going to have to pay for this medication out-of-pocket because my health insurance ends the 30th | Personal threat |
| 194 | 9/27/2023 9:07:10 AM | Please stop spending money on the protein powder because we need it for our bills and for our kids we cannot rely on anyone for shit so please stop spending that’s money that could’ve been spent to cover the costs of Cruz’s birthday party | Profanity/Insult |
| 195 | 10/2/2023 11:25:34 AM | Ask him what they did with you guys when he had business trips??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 196 | 10/3/2023 3:39:44 PM | With this stupid ass club | Demeaning/Insult |
| 197 | 10/7/2023 11:09:18 AM | I’m physically drained and I have to heavy duty clean like you left the kitchen a disgusting mess and cutting bananas in half brings bugs there was like a ton of gnats like I’m just sick of the messes and I’m sick of the baby gate not being up, it just adds up. I made love to you on my period and now my whole body hurts and aches. I’m exhausted | Demeaning/Insult |
| 198 | 10/7/2023 11:30:03 AM | I also take out all the trashes and all the bathrooms you never take out any other trash or anything. Maybe we need a chore list because this is incredibly unfair that everything falls on me. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 199 | 10/17/2023 3:05:14 PM | Always smart to ask though, because you never know if things have changed etc | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 200 | 10/19/2023 9:51:25 AM | Call them and ask them why that couldn’t be done today because they’re fucking racist and they won’t listen to me. I tried to explain that to them I’m like I’m very busy I work and I have a baby. This is the opportunity to get the cleaning today why can’t I get it today? They’re like no we’ll schedule it for Monday. They gave me no reason. | Profanity/Insult |
| 201 | 10/19/2023 9:52:42 AM | Tell them I’m not coming Monday and then I’m gonna find another fucking Dentist | Profanity/Insult |
| 202 | 10/31/2023 10:36:29 AM | Bae???? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 203 | 11/7/2023 5:38:14 PM | Yay!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 204 | 11/8/2023 8:59:16 PM | That meat was too spicy I’m such an idiot | Demeaning/Insult |
| 205 | 11/10/2023 8:55:06 PM | Bae omg! Look how much this went up in price!!!! It used to be $30! Now it’s $80 | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 206 | 11/12/2023 1:03:00 PM | Hey bae, I’m upset at the hypocrisy of my parents. Assuming shit! When they weren’t parents of the year! It’s triggering for me because I was sick all the time with throat infections and ear infections that I was mislabeled SLD in the second grade until I had tube surgery for my ears and my tonsils removed from my throat. So STFU and sit down! | Profanity/Insult |
| 207 | 11/12/2023 1:04:40 PM | Not to mention they left me with an abusive nanny | Character attack |
| 208 | 11/14/2023 3:37:55 PM | Who are you talking to??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 209 | 11/22/2023 3:52:52 PM | ???? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 210 | 11/22/2023 5:02:23 PM | I’m too smart to fall that shit twice! | Profanity/Insult |
| 211 | 11/22/2023 5:02:45 PM | I’m setting boundaries and that’s a no for me!!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 212 | 11/22/2023 5:13:01 PM | Give me the code!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 213 | 11/29/2023 11:20:20 AM | I think a bigger screen is just gonna worse in my headaches because it’s more light and you know more of that toxic light on your face | Character attack |
| 214 | 11/29/2023 11:30:54 AM | I feel like she always comes over with like an undertone of judgment just to go and talk shit about us and the family with her family | Profanity/Insult |
| 215 | 12/3/2023 2:36:06 PM | They want us to do Christmas Eve at Terri’s then Christmas at your parents on Christmas Day then Christmas dinner again with your family? What about my family? WTH??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 216 | 12/9/2023 4:06:59 PM | Wow okay!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 217 | 12/12/2023 4:05:11 PM | Seriously!!! You just woke up but we didn’t it’s EOD over here hahaha | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 218 | 1/3/2024 2:01:35 PM | I’m not saying you lied on your resume that’s what an employer accused you of | Direct lie accusation |
| 219 | 1/3/2024 6:02:38 PM | Until you take some accountability and stop making yourself the victim and promise me you’ll put in the work to keep a job and provide financial stability for your family I don’t want to go to any family events with you and I will live a completely separate life. I cannot tolerate to be around your delusional behavior. | Character attack |
| 220 | 1/8/2024 3:15:57 PM | I’m drinking them, I need rest nothing works because I’m exhausted!!!!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 221 | 1/8/2024 4:17:54 PM | I can’t get a hold of her so fucking annoying | Profanity/Insult |
| 222 | 1/8/2024 8:40:12 PM | You’re so delusional, it’s really sad. I can’t talk to you if you’re not going to realistic | Character attack |
| 223 | 1/14/2024 1:04:25 PM | Like they lost their shit when he called a stranger Dada and I’m like he called his stuffed animal in the car that, you’re not special bruh | Profanity/Insult |
| 224 | 1/18/2024 11:10:26 AM | Yay!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 225 | 1/21/2024 6:28:09 PM | Elijah won proposed to Katina!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 226 | 1/23/2024 12:20:32 PM | Cause I’m busy AF!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 227 | 1/26/2024 12:13:21 PM | I love you always and unconditionally | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 228 | 1/26/2024 4:45:16 PM | You’re unkind and you’re purposely trying to find a way out instead of fighting for us. You’re not listening and you’re belittling my feelings calling reaction of human emotion crazy, that’s called gaslighting. | Character attack |
| 229 | 1/26/2024 4:48:16 PM | You’re so delusional in thinking you’re so superior and perfect in this marriage you fail to recognize your faults and put everything on me. That’s not fair or true! | Character attack |
| 230 | 2/1/2024 7:48:50 PM | Was he saying my job is going to be taken by AI? He doesn’t know shit! I refuse to let haters bring me down. | Profanity/Insult |
| 231 | 2/1/2024 7:53:28 PM | I know what I heard and I’m tired of these stupid ass AI predictions. I hope it blows the fuck up and no one uses it anymore! | Profanity/InsultDemeaning/Insult |
| 232 | 2/1/2024 8:07:38 PM | Just because you’re having trouble finding a job doesn’t mean you have to shit on others who doing well, and working their asses off especially while under the weather and still pushing to make money for my family! Show some gratitude! | Profanity/Insult |
| 233 | 2/3/2024 8:34:29 PM | I’m not threatening to leave you or anything like that I’m saying, I’m gonna find my group of friends that are going to recharge my batteries | Fear/intimidation |
| 234 | 2/6/2024 2:15:44 PM | Bae!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 235 | 2/6/2024 2:31:46 PM | You got this!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 236 | 2/7/2024 3:23:21 PM | I’m going to lay down for a few minutes while the sheets dry,I’m fucking exhausted | Profanity/Insult |
| 237 | 2/11/2024 12:59:17 PM | Bae I kicked butt today!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 238 | 2/12/2024 6:01:48 PM | I just hate when you don’t own up to stuff that you did that’s not right and you try to gaslight me into thinking that I’m the bad guy because of the way that I react when the fact of the matter is that you messed up and that’s why I was upset I don’t like being gaslighted | Character attack |
| 239 | 2/17/2024 11:56:08 AM | I’m getting upset because my migraine is coming back, I’m just going to push through it fuck it! I’m tired of this shit ruining my quality of life | Profanity/Insult |
| 240 | 2/17/2024 12:14:29 PM | If you didn’t want me to fucking go, that’s all you had to say you you wanna be a third wheel that’s on you | Profanity/Insult |
| 241 | 2/17/2024 12:15:45 PM | Leave me the fuck alone | Profanity/Insult |
| 242 | 2/17/2024 12:16:46 PM | Just leave me alone | Hostile dismissal |
| 243 | 2/17/2024 12:17:27 PM | You always do this to me | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 244 | 2/17/2024 12:19:05 PM | You always have someone to help you | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 245 | 2/17/2024 12:19:27 PM | You’re too much of a narcissist to see what you did wrong we hardly ever get an opportunity to do anything like that, and you wouldn’t even give me an option | Character attack |
| 246 | 2/17/2024 12:20:07 PM | Own it! This has been the worst Valentine’s ever! Ever!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 247 | 2/17/2024 12:21:58 PM | You need to think about what you could’ve done differently and really reflect and stop blaming others for your stupid mistakes | Demeaning/Insult |
| 248 | 2/17/2024 12:24:13 PM | You’re so dumb | Demeaning/Insult |
| 249 | 2/17/2024 1:15:09 PM | I don’t hate you. I love you very much. My feelings were just really hurt, but I will process this and get over it. | Expressed hatred |
| 250 | 2/21/2024 12:29:25 PM | She said something so profound she talks about when you break your leg and when you’re in a cast, and after the fact, your body knows not to move that way again, not to bend your leg that way again, the same happens to your heart when you get betrayed or you’re heartbroken, There comes a time where you try to love again and there’s like a huge block for a matter of time until you’re fully healed and then you can love again hence why I went on that five year hiatus of healing | Betrayal accusation |
| 251 | 2/23/2024 11:46:53 AM | I need to see a change and fast!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 252 | 3/4/2024 10:15:29 PM | Grow the fuck up! I’m not going to tolerate you talking to me like crap | Profanity/Insult |
| 253 | 3/4/2024 10:17:01 PM | Just leave me alone please. Stop being hateful | Hostile dismissal |
| 254 | 3/6/2024 7:08:41 PM | I didn’t call you a loser at all you’re making that up. I said it was immature that you said you’re not my mom you can’t tell me what to do! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 255 | 3/6/2024 7:21:26 PM | No, I know I didn’t say that. Calling someone immature and a loser are two different things | Demeaning/Insult |
| 256 | 3/6/2024 7:21:34 PM | Your toxic!! | Character attack |
| 257 | 3/6/2024 7:21:43 PM | You’re toxic | Character attack |
| 258 | 3/6/2024 7:22:11 PM | Your selfish and toxic and manipulative | Character attack |
| 259 | 3/6/2024 8:01:45 PM | You never take out the trash in trash days I have to, you barely do anything around here | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 260 | 3/7/2024 12:12:27 AM | This is unemployed loser behavior. If you cared about getting a job and this family, you’d get to bed early to wake up early hustle to get a job! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 261 | 3/7/2024 12:16:48 AM | You don’t give a shit about us | Profanity/Insult |
| 262 | 3/15/2024 5:15:40 PM | Biden can’t get shit to pass when he tried to pass the student law thing they rejected it | Profanity/Insult |
| 263 | 3/18/2024 10:10:31 AM | Close out that stupid bank account that you were swindled into opening | Demeaning/Insult |
| 264 | 3/26/2024 1:24:47 PM | I’m worried about spending so much money for such little bit of food. I feel more comfortable if I went with you just so I know that we’re getting a good deal. I feel like every time I see a huge chunk out of our account for like four fucking things. | Profanity/Insult |
| 265 | 3/26/2024 1:25:12 PM | You always just get stuff that’s just for you like your protein bars your snacks and we need food too | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 266 | 3/29/2024 1:40:50 PM | I don’t really want to. It’s a typing assessment, which I think is really stupid. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 267 | 3/29/2024 5:58:52 PM | What kind of narcissist apology is this? You didn’t keep your word to help me and lost your temper to teach me a lesson? This is not okay, again blaming others and not taking responsibility for your words and actions | Character attack |
| 268 | 3/29/2024 6:00:26 PM | You’re delusional, it’s really sad | Character attack |
| 269 | 3/29/2024 6:03:09 PM | A good person admits when they’re wrong, and doesn’t try to gaslight the other person into blame and shame | Character attack |
| 270 | 3/29/2024 6:04:40 PM | No, you tried to blame me for triggering you, you continued to curse me out and wave your hands in my face, like you were threatening to slap me | Fear/intimidation |
| 271 | 3/29/2024 6:06:25 PM | I don’t, I do speak out of fear sometimes and I’m working on that. I don’t threaten you. | Fear/intimidation |
| 272 | 4/12/2024 9:12:06 AM | Shit i forgot to bring in the diapers | Profanity/Insult |
| 273 | 4/13/2024 12:15:58 PM | Bae wtf? State Farm is fucking ridiculous $233!!! | Profanity/InsultAggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 274 | 4/14/2024 2:07:40 PM | Stop shut the fuck up you’re disgusting! I didn’t deserve what happened to me. I didn’t become tough until after I endured that, then I stopped being soft and naive | Profanity/InsultDemeaning/Insult |
| 275 | 4/22/2024 11:11:19 AM | You need to bring your phone!!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 276 | 4/28/2024 7:05:21 PM | You are the best!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 277 | 5/2/2024 12:15:26 PM | I heard Nikki was talking shit about me to my cousins and it got back to me. I knew my intuition was spot on! | Profanity/Insult |
| 278 | 5/7/2024 3:20:22 PM | Houghton Mifflin Harcourt contacted me about a Senior Editor position!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 279 | 5/7/2024 4:33:19 PM | I have no idea, but please don’t share this outside of me and you I don’t want people talking shit | Profanity/Insult |
| 280 | 5/13/2024 2:00:57 PM | They don’t need to see shit you can just tell them the price | Profanity/Insult |
| 281 | 5/24/2024 12:18:09 PM | Hey bae, who do we contact about continuous trash in our front yard? I keep cleaning it up. This is the fourth time. I don’t know if it’s those fucking neighborhood kids leaving trash in our front yard but who do we contact about it? I’m thinking about contacting Marco’s parents just to kind of put an alert out there. | Profanity/Insult |
| 282 | 5/25/2024 11:43:46 AM | Your parents aren’t helping us out with necessities to survive so I wouldn’t bit the hand that’s helping us, don’t be dumb! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 283 | 5/25/2024 11:50:53 AM | I took care of everything for 2 weeks alone!!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 284 | 7/3/2024 3:50:29 PM | I know but when? I can’t take this! You were unemployed for 6 months now me, we can never catch up, it’s fucking crazy | Profanity/Insult |
| 285 | 7/3/2024 3:51:04 PM | I don’t want to talk about this protein matter that’s not making us any money like I just don’t have it in me to talk about that shit when we where we’re at right now | Profanity/Insult |
| 286 | 7/5/2024 2:36:44 PM | So dumb | Demeaning/Insult |
| 287 | 7/5/2024 2:44:46 PM | So stupid! I hate this | Demeaning/Insult |
| 288 | 7/5/2024 2:47:33 PM | It finally downloaded the app and now it’s asking me to put in payment information. What the fuck | Profanity/Insult |
| 289 | 7/5/2024 3:20:35 PM | You have a job, we can’t move it was a dumb suggestion | Demeaning/Insult |
| 290 | 7/7/2024 7:57:08 PM | I know right!? She said you know you always have a place to stay too | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 291 | 7/10/2024 8:30:58 AM | I forgot the milk again, Fuck! | Profanity/Insult |
| 292 | 7/11/2024 10:06:12 AM | How long is this call??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 293 | 7/16/2024 5:00:45 PM | We wouldn’t be in this mess if you remembered the place. I cannot be proactive and help you if you cannot remember the place!!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 294 | 7/17/2024 2:23:05 PM | It’s just hard on me, I’m stuck in my head thinking toxic things like, maybe I should get a tummy tuck or get really skinny, then he’ll desire me more etc. | Character attack |
| 295 | 7/25/2024 4:33:33 PM | Replying to you, 2024-07-25 16:27:56: « I definitely am skeptical of all religion » I don’t blame you, but that self righteous I’m better than you attitude like you’re so smart and everyone else is dumb for being Christian etc. doesn’t fly with me and that’s the energy you bring. The best people I’ve ever met in my life have been Christian Catholics. The worst people have been evangelical Protestants | Demeaning/Insult |
| 296 | 8/4/2024 5:20:53 PM | Honey, I asked you to bring me the canister of Lysol so that I can spray the trashcan. It smells disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 297 | 8/4/2024 5:59:10 PM | I’m just saying bae, I’m not an idiot and will not tolerate that behavior and disrespect very disloyal and dishonorable | Demeaning/Insult |
| 298 | 8/4/2024 5:59:50 PM | I’m just letting you know where I’m coming from in case it’s ever crossed your mind to be unfaithful to me | Betrayal accusation |
| 299 | 8/4/2024 6:00:20 PM | Okay, because this lady is looking disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 300 | 8/4/2024 6:12:16 PM | There are no second chances in my book when it comes to that I think that’s utterly unforgivable and disgusting behavior | Demeaning/Insult |
| 301 | 8/6/2024 2:45:16 PM | I just felt a vibe that they could possibly be threatened by me and I hope that they don’t sabotage me because of that | Fear/intimidation |
| 302 | 8/6/2024 2:48:30 PM | Because I kicked motherfucking ass in that goddamn interview and if they can’t see it, then they are jealous ass wipes | Profanity/Insult |
| 303 | 8/10/2024 11:19:55 AM | Are you dumb? Seriously you see me with gloves you see me getting cleaning products what do you think I’m doing please use your contexts clues, how can I communicate this stuff with you when you’re on the phone? | Demeaning/Insult |
| 304 | 8/10/2024 11:21:01 AM | I’m cleaning up your boogers boogers and your piss everywhere all over the toilet seat and your boogers all over the shower on my hands and knees. How would you feel? | Profanity/Insult |
| 305 | 8/10/2024 11:21:09 AM | Your mucus all over the freaking pillowcases all the time I have to wash bedsheets every single day. It’s disgusting. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 306 | 8/11/2024 6:47:37 PM | My parents can be the worst sometimes like just because you’re miserable doesn’t mean you need to project that shit on me | Profanity/Insult |
| 307 | 8/19/2024 8:13:34 AM | Damn it!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 308 | 8/19/2024 10:44:17 AM | Get that fucking CT scan | Profanity/Insult |
| 309 | 8/23/2024 3:04:28 PM | Don’t shit on the profession | Profanity/Insult |
| 310 | 8/23/2024 5:16:30 PM | You’re the one calling names and telling me to shut up because you know that I’m right and you don’t like to hear the truth again logic has always been absent from your plans | Hostile dismissal |
| 311 | 8/23/2024 7:02:38 PM | My emotional needs were not met today, instead I had to stroke your ego while I’m feeling like shit on all fronts | Profanity/Insult |
| 312 | 8/23/2024 7:13:25 PM | You care more about your delusional plans than your own family and our well being and quality time etc | Character attack |
| 313 | 8/30/2024 11:21:22 AM | Yes, but we shouldn’t be trapped up here. They need to figure it out that I’m watching a toddler while you work like that’s what work life balance is like get the fuck over it. | Profanity/Insult |
| 314 | 9/4/2024 10:07:36 AM | Bae, not to sound paranoid but should I give it the week then if I don’t receive the offer letter should I reach out on Friday? | Character attack |
| 315 | 9/11/2024 1:33:46 PM | We did not have Samsung TV before now. Nothing that is streaming has volume nothing that is streaming works. The only thing that works with some stupid Samsung TV if you signed up for something for football, you need to cancel. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 316 | 9/13/2024 2:24:17 PM | Kamala fact checked the shit outta him! | Profanity/Insult |
| 317 | 9/14/2024 3:49:34 PM | I’ve not called you a single name but you’re calling me delusional and deaf etc | Character attack |
| 318 | 9/15/2024 10:43:56 PM | Dear Chris, Please don’t change, don’t be mean to me, don’t call me horrible names, don’t hit below the belt that’s not you. I love you how you came to me, kind, sweet and gentle. I realize I grew up around toxic masculinity. I don’t want that! You were my first real safe person that I could be my full self with. I’m sorry I take you for granted sometimes, by making assumptions that aren’t true. You were always my peace . I loved that about you. I don’t want to take that from you because that was robbed from me. I know it took you a long time to work up to having a quiet mind and healing your own trauma . I realize, I need that. I’m processing a lot right now. More than anything I don’t want you to change, I love everything about you. I would hate myself forever if I felt like I was making you mean and especially mean to me. I don’t want to self sabotage by making my soul mate hate me. You’re the only man I ever truly loved with my whole heart. I am deserving of this love and I need to believe that. How do I get back to loving myself more so that it radiates throughout my being and manifests back into the love that you had and truly deserve from me? I don’t know, but I’m determined to get back there. The more we peel back these layers from beautiful, ugly, scared, beautiful again etc. The deeper we go the deeper we love. I love you so much Chris. I’ve watched you heal miraculously, it’s my turn, and I’m determined to heal for us. In God’s name I pray | Character attack |
| 319 | 9/17/2024 6:21:14 PM | You have no shame putting your family through this time and time again it’s disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 320 | 9/19/2024 10:56:26 AM | It didn’t seem like it at all that’s the kind of gaslighting that aggravates me because at least I’m so good at something that I can always come back! | Character attack |
| 321 | 9/20/2024 6:00:55 PM | Gaslighting | Character attack |
| 322 | 9/20/2024 6:01:19 PM | Saying shit like “my day was so hard”. Fuck you! | Profanity/Insult |
| 323 | 9/20/2024 6:02:18 PM | Stop gaslighting me I will call you out! I have the text | Character attack |
| 324 | 9/20/2024 7:06:33 PM | You losing jobs constantly and draining our savings is toxic | Character attack |
| 325 | 9/20/2024 7:07:18 PM | You refusing to make sacrifices for this family and not taking a government job or applying for a government job while your wife is the only one making sacrifices for the family is toxic | Character attack |
| 326 | 9/20/2024 7:19:22 PM | If you’re not gonna help me and you’re going to just play video games, then stay out there because I don’t need you coming back if you’re just going to be useless when I am trying to take care of the baby so that I can take a shower | Demeaning/Insult |
| 327 | 9/20/2024 8:57:57 PM | Are you literally out while I’m taking care of two sick children??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 328 | 9/20/2024 9:00:19 PM | WTF is wrong with you??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 329 | 9/20/2024 9:01:11 PM | You’re disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 330 | 9/20/2024 9:01:59 PM | You’re such a fucking pervert | Profanity/Insult |
| 331 | 9/20/2024 9:17:41 PM | I apologize for my delivery on certain things but I am fed up, I cannot live in your delusional world anymore. Our family deserves financial stability, we need a savings account, I just want to live a good life, because of you we are always struggling and as the man of the house you need to be providing that too. I am doing my part I have gone above and beyond my part. Your behavior is cowardice there’s nothing left to describe it. Every time what I say rings true you can’t handle it because you want to live in a fantasy. Instead of walking away, provide a reason why you might disagree or a solution. | Character attack |
| 332 | 9/21/2024 6:52:22 PM | I don’t wanna go with you to the party. That’s not what I’m saying but for you to just offer me a measly hour is pathetic and inconsiderate and selfish. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 333 | 9/23/2024 8:24:31 PM | What I meant was we have a couple more of those pay in 4 payments due in the next couple months, and John Casablanca is threatening to send me to collections | Fear/intimidation |
| 334 | 10/3/2024 2:11:13 PM | The AP called me at 6:30am to ask me to cover these classes I was like FUCK | Profanity/Insult |
| 335 | 10/3/2024 2:13:55 PM | I hate this so much, it’s like babysitting when I have so much to do!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 336 | 10/3/2024 8:51:12 PM | If we are going to move towards progress you cannot call me names. I shared my vulnerability with you and because you didn’t like what I said in the text you called me an asshole, you don’t call your wife, the woman who carried your child that. | Profanity/Insult |
| 337 | 10/7/2024 11:56:24 AM | I added you and Cruz to my life insurance plan as well as my hospital stay coverage plan because you never know and that’s cheaper than adding you to my entire plan | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 338 | 10/22/2024 10:49:17 PM | You accused me of things I didn’t do or say and were really cruel to me. I’ve apologized to you in the past for little things letting you off the hook for not taking accountability for anything. Tonight none of it was my fault and you’re still trying to find things to blame me for. I did not talk to you like a mental patient I was trying to figure out why you were telling lies about me to my face and why you couldn’t see how your actions were inconsiderate and you telling me to sorry I ate your fucking lunch make a fucking sandwich after an exhausting day of zero downtime was just cruel after I was kind to you by giving you some in the first place. | Profanity/Insult |
| 339 | 10/22/2024 10:55:03 PM | You started gaslighting me and calling me crazy and saying I need serious help for crying over spilled milk when that wasn’t the issue that triggered that conversation and you started lying about how i reacted and I kept repeating your name because those lies were not true and I was saying your name in order to avoid calling you bad names | Character attack |
| 340 | 10/24/2024 11:54:04 AM | I like the extra pay but I hate getting dragged to cover classes when I have so much shit to do myself | Profanity/Insult |
| 341 | 10/27/2024 9:07:20 PM | This is the the shit I’m telling you about that’s upsetting me that I will not tolerate | Profanity/Insult |
| 342 | 10/27/2024 9:19:29 PM | We fucking have to vote tomorrow, you have to come with me, we cannot let these ignorant hillbillies win | Profanity/Insult |
| 343 | 10/29/2024 3:30:56 PM | When you call me names, it makes me not wanna listen to you when you call me a bitch and you call me crazy no I’m not a Gaslighter. You started with that I started in. I’m not understanding the money situation but then when you started calling me names that made me wanna shut down. You don’t know what gaslighting means and you probably get it from your parents because they’re masters at it. | Profanity/InsultCharacter attack |
| 344 | 10/29/2024 3:32:31 PM | You’re impossible! Take your meds and stay away from me | Hostile dismissal |
| 345 | 10/29/2024 3:33:14 PM | Leave me alone I cannot reason with you anymore I tried all you did was call me names | Hostile dismissal |
| 346 | 10/29/2024 3:33:58 PM | You’re so disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 347 | 10/29/2024 4:02:14 PM | No, you made me feel stupid, and started calling me names Instead of helping me understand and then calling me crazy like so uncalled for | Demeaning/Insult |
| 348 | 10/29/2024 4:04:43 PM | Like what??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 349 | 10/29/2024 4:07:18 PM | If you look back, you keep doing that to me every time I try to be understanding and diplomatic, you keep accusing me of gaslighting or some sort of craziness | Character attack |
| 350 | 11/1/2024 11:05:25 AM | No babe, it’s the football game. Remember how you said you always wanted to go to the football game | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 351 | 11/2/2024 8:20:59 PM | Don’t do sneaky fucked up shit and you won’t get a reaction | Profanity/Insult |
| 352 | 11/2/2024 8:24:16 PM | That’s such a lie. Don’t turn this around on me. Your actions are what is disgusting, sneaky, and disgraceful | Demeaning/Insult |
| 353 | 11/2/2024 8:26:02 PM | Pleased stop talking to me, you are disgusting | Demeaning/InsultDirect personal attack |
| 354 | 11/2/2024 8:35:10 PM | This whole thing your lies and sneakiness has been incredibly emotionally abusive towards me hello or is your brain disorder not having you process how inappropriate this is | Character attack |
| 355 | 11/3/2024 8:30:10 AM | How disgusting are you? | Demeaning/Insult |
| 356 | 11/3/2024 8:30:48 AM | Then try to talk shit about me behind my back with her when your sneaky little plan didn’t work out and you got caught | Profanity/Insult |
| 357 | 11/6/2024 3:20:30 PM | Honey, if we don’t get cheaper gas groceries and mortgage out of this election, I’m gonna be so pissed lol | Profanity/Insult |
| 358 | 11/8/2024 5:36:43 PM | Look at this disgusting mess she left me | Demeaning/Insult |
| 359 | 11/21/2024 7:12:46 PM | Honey, Jacob’s room is disgusting, we need to start taking privileges away | Demeaning/Insult |
| 360 | 12/19/2024 1:56:21 PM | I get that they start a hell of a lot later than us, but it’s so fucking annoying like give them half days | Profanity/Insult |
| 361 | 12/20/2024 5:06:35 PM | I came down!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 362 | 12/28/2024 1:27:48 PM | Pray for me bae they’re so fucking annoying | Profanity/Insult |
| 363 | 1/2/2025 2:15:27 PM | Yay!!! Okay | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 364 | 1/4/2025 8:31:22 PM | I didn’t call you stupid I just said I didn’t want you making any stupid choices because you have in the past that have really hurt us and set us back financially and you have been swindled by people in the past and we just are not in a position fall for any of that nonsense | Demeaning/Insult |
| 365 | 1/6/2025 12:13:07 PM | I know bae I’m so pissed | Profanity/Insult |
| 366 | 1/8/2025 6:42:00 PM | OK honey, let me know if that’s not enough food and I will make you something else | Personal threat |
| 367 | 1/10/2025 11:07:18 AM | Hello??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 368 | 1/10/2025 6:14:33 PM | Sorry it stresses me out him getting hurt every 2 fucking seconds it’s like you can’t turn around | Profanity/Insult |
| 369 | 1/15/2025 3:24:40 PM | Ooo yay!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 370 | 1/19/2025 3:01:41 PM | I just want to take a moment to thank you for being the type I man I need in this life. The man who doesn’t stunt my growth, it can be really hard unlearn toxic patterns, and see the good in people when you’ve been hurt by those who claim to love you in the past. I don’t think I have the words to express how much you truly mean to me or how much you inspire me, but I will spend the rest of my days showing you through my actions. | Character attack |
| 371 | 1/23/2025 8:58:14 AM | Fucking assholes | Profanity/Insult |
| 372 | 1/23/2025 9:01:51 AM | They were doing some stupid ass social media trend where this stupid girl spits | Demeaning/Insult |
| 373 | 1/23/2025 9:01:57 AM | It’s disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 374 | 1/28/2025 8:51:13 PM | This conversation is over, I need my rest. I will overcome my driving anxiety without your hateful words. Please leave me alone. I can’t get over the hateful things you’ve said to me after all the love and support I’ve given. I’ve been a work horse since day one! I wasn’t able to enjoy being a stay at home mom for a second. | Hostile dismissal |
| 375 | 1/30/2025 3:28:53 PM | Everyone is on my side, apparently this woman is bat shit crazy and cannot control her child | Profanity/Insult |
| 376 | 1/30/2025 4:38:35 PM | The long term plan could be stay, get my MA, get the fuck out | Profanity/Insult |
| 377 | 2/4/2025 3:36:09 PM | Ooo awesome!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 378 | 2/4/2025 5:08:31 PM | You never know, worth a shot | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 379 | 2/7/2025 10:16:02 PM | I’m sorry I wasn’t feeling well and took it out on you. I will work on controlling my emotions during my time of the month. I’ll be more mindful. I’m sorry you don’t like me right now and think so low of me, my profession and that I’m just a jealous troll. I just want to feel respected and beautiful as your wife and mother to our sons too. I don’t want to fight with my best friend. It’s okay if you need space. | Character attack |
| 380 | 2/8/2025 10:07:04 AM | I feel the same way. The things you were saying yesterday were really hurtful and I get that. I’m on my period and need to check myself sometimes but you always go to a really dark place putting down my profession and bringing up the past you are not a saint in this. We need to work on this together. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 381 | 2/12/2025 5:40:05 PM | You’re being such a jerk, when you literally saw me clean the kitchen yesterday and make dinner and take care of the baby while you went to martial arts so shut the fuck up | Profanity/Insult |
| 382 | 2/12/2025 5:40:50 PM | You are being incredibly insensitive and incredibly selfish. Just leave me alone right now. Please leave me alone. You are making me incredibly angry right now. I don’t know what your problem is but you’re being disgusting. | Demeaning/InsultHostile dismissal |
| 383 | 2/14/2025 12:10:14 PM | Honey, why can’t we just stick to marketplace Holmes? Why can’t you just negotiate with your boss to please let us just stick with what we have because my insurance is also gonna limit what doctors we see and stuff like that. It’s very shitty. | Profanity/Insult |
| 384 | 2/14/2025 12:10:36 PM | It’s very expensive and very shitty. It’s going to take away a lot of of my money. | Profanity/Insult |
| 385 | 2/14/2025 12:10:51 PM | This is very fucked up timing and it’s stressing me the fuck out | Profanity/Insult |
| 386 | 2/14/2025 12:22:11 PM | I don’t want $700 taken out of my account every month for me and Cruz and then with you is gonna be even more than that. Do you get that like that’s fucked up? | Profanity/Insult |
| 387 | 2/16/2025 2:06:09 PM | Pick up!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 388 | 2/19/2025 12:02:05 PM | Yay!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 389 | 2/21/2025 5:09:07 PM | She’s stupid sometimes | Demeaning/Insult |
| 390 | 2/21/2025 6:29:39 PM | I talked to Jacob about cleaning up after himself too, and throwing his trash away. I took out the trash in the kitchen, which was disgusting and heavy as hell and stinking up our house, but you didn’t thank me for that | Demeaning/Insult |
| 391 | 2/21/2025 6:34:24 PM | I just feel like you always complain about the kitchen and this time it wasn’t me, you always wanna blame me when it’s a collective mess. It’s usually all of us to blame this time it was mostly you | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 392 | 2/28/2025 4:30:31 PM | Words are worthless without action | Demeaning/Insult |
| 393 | 2/28/2025 4:30:57 PM | You can be delusional all you want, but I know at the end of the day your parents do not have our back | Character attack |
| 394 | 2/28/2025 4:34:14 PM | I already admitted to my part, but I feel like you are not self-aware on your part and I’m tired of having to hammer it in for you like it feels like you’re in like a delusional world with fictional characters | Character attack |
| 395 | 3/6/2025 3:12:33 PM | This is disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 396 | 3/7/2025 7:58:49 PM | I really try with you but you don’t make an effort. You make dumb financial decisions that put us in a bind. I worked my butt off today and come home and do more chores and laundry , buy us essential groceries and come home to you not helping out at all. I have to ask you to help me or else you won’t. You expect me to do everything. All I was asking is since you like to drive my car that we can get a car wash together but I don’t mind taking it myself. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 397 | 3/7/2025 10:46:09 PM | It also hurt my feelings when you said Cruz doesn’t have temper tantrums with you only with me which is such lie. He wanted me to hold him instead of cook that’s why he was upset, I did my best to console him but sometimes he just wants me to hold him all the time. You don’t get it because he doesn’t need that from you. Don’t make cruel assumptions about “my energy” etc when you have no idea what you’re talking about. I always have loving energy towards him, I love him with every fiber of my existence! It was just too dangerous to cook and hold him at the same time. When you say things like that it makes me not want to be close to you. These are things I’d like to address with the counselor I feel like you find joy in hurting me by putting me down. No one normal says to their wife that their baby is crying because they have bad energy. That’s insane! Cruel, hurtful and a gaslighting lie! You can be so awful sometimes and take zero accountability. | Character attack |
| 398 | 3/10/2025 2:58:28 PM | I don’t like this conversation or where this is going , I don’t like feeling judged when I know myself. You can be all skin and bones by yourself. I’m healthy, leave me alone. | Hostile dismissal |
| 399 | 3/10/2025 3:01:02 PM | This is why I hate you, you see me eat one sweet at my parents house and judge everyone like you’re better than them, when you’re the unhealthiest | Expressed hatred |
| 400 | 3/10/2025 3:04:43 PM | Then you say stupid shit like oh well that’s your truth like you disagree | Profanity/InsultDemeaning/Insult |
| 401 | 3/10/2025 3:05:22 PM | You don’t know how to communicate one minute my body is perfect and beautiful and another minute I am a fat pig it’s like fucking abusive | Profanity/InsultCharacter attack |
| 402 | 3/11/2025 3:53:39 PM | Don’t be dumb bae | Demeaning/Insult |
| 403 | 3/11/2025 4:14:01 PM | I think an email to start, like we don’t want her to know that we’re on to her right now. We want to cut ties peacefully, because we don’t know what she’s capable of. however if she comes after us in anyway or you’re noticing any bank fraud or I since we have the same account and we can trace it back to her then we need to take legal action | Legal threat |
| 404 | 3/13/2025 12:20:21 PM | Hey bae, tomorrow is a teacher workday, so I can sleep in a bit but I still have to come in and plan Q4 with my teams. We need to be here at 8:30am yay!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 405 | 3/17/2025 11:32:39 AM | Again I’m not stupid just like I figured this out I’ve been in Bunk situations before and what you’re saying makes absolutely no sense | Demeaning/Insult |
| 406 | 3/17/2025 11:33:27 AM | I’m off and it’s for me to relax and instead I’m cleaning and doing laundry and having to deal with this shit when I’m supposed to be decompressing | Profanity/Insult |
| 407 | 3/17/2025 11:34:14 AM | You’re being very financially irresponsible and this is pattern and you’re being dishonest about not connecting our account when you know you did like an idiot | Demeaning/Insult |
| 408 | 3/17/2025 2:05:44 PM | The rest of this break I wanna be left alone I don’t want anybody over I just wanna be left the fuck alone | Profanity/Insult |
| 409 | 3/17/2025 2:08:39 PM | I’m trying to spend quality time with my son I woke up early and did more laundry put the curtains up the things like that like I just need you to recognize everything that I do and just leave me alone like you don’t understand what teachers do you want a daily basis and the mental gymnastics that it causes and reeks have on the body like this is why we have these brakes because it’s our survival | Hostile dismissal |
| 410 | 3/17/2025 2:09:56 PM | My body is in pain I have a migraine from dealing with that shit earlier because of your irresponsibility and now I am trying to come my nervous system down | Profanity/Insult |
| 411 | 3/17/2025 2:16:10 PM | I’m just letting you know I don’t care if she talks shit about me I know that I fucking work hard even if you don’t fucking defend me you know that I fucking work hard and I’m tired of this I feel like I can never take a break and I’m making myself sick | Profanity/Insult |
| 412 | 3/17/2025 3:36:47 PM | You’re an idiot, I made him breakfast I told him I’d take him to lunch as a treat but he’s taking so long to finish one chore and I’m trying to keep the kitchen clean after cleaning it after breakfast | Demeaning/Insult |
| 413 | 3/17/2025 3:54:59 PM | I’m done I’m done with you have no concept of time or consideration | Hostile dismissal |
| 414 | 3/19/2025 9:12:19 AM | Right!!!? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 415 | 3/21/2025 12:53:01 PM | Bae, this is freaking ridiculous I just finished seven essays and I’m already feeling super nauseous it turns out that there are multiple essays in one summative in total there are 14!!! That’s crazy!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 416 | 3/28/2025 9:02:26 AM | I feel like you always make me work like a workhorse when I’m on my period I’ve never given the empathy or time to rest that I need. Other husbands that love and care fir their wives understand this and help out more with household chores etc | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 417 | 3/28/2025 4:25:23 PM | She’s engaged!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 418 | 4/15/2025 7:02:10 PM | Stop lying | Direct lie accusation |
| 419 | 5/4/2025 12:03:18 PM | Then you gaslight me by saying I have a negative attitude etc. who wouldn’t after all this? | Character attack |
| 420 | 5/4/2025 12:07:32 PM | If I can recognize my stuff and be vulnerable, you can too. It was just so disgusting to me that I was raw and open with you and you were admitting to absolutely nothing when you have so much that you need to improve upon. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 421 | 5/4/2025 1:03:34 PM | Then why is your Dad who is a corporate guru always asking me to give you advice if I’m so dumb as you say? | Demeaning/Insult |
| 422 | 5/4/2025 1:04:17 PM | You know what I don’t need you putting me down when everyone else but you knows my worth. Stay a loser, I don’t care. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 423 | 5/4/2025 3:48:07 PM | Because we are a Family!!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 424 | 5/15/2025 11:26:27 AM | Amazing I’m so proud of you!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 425 | 5/20/2025 7:00:27 PM | Whoever told you that is full of shit! I have to tip toe around my neighbor daily who’s not returning due to no fault to his own | Profanity/Insult |
| 426 | 5/20/2025 7:08:52 PM | Nope, I did not start the cursing you did. You started putting me down in my profession as you always do. Ever since I even got this job. You always try to dim my light. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 427 | 5/21/2025 5:12:09 PM | Wowza!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 428 | 5/30/2025 7:30:10 PM | Don’t say things that make me upset about teachers having two months off because I will take a screenshot and put it all over social media so that teachers can rip you a new asshole | Profanity/Insult |
| 429 | 6/6/2025 8:14:25 PM | Now you’re gaslighting me because every time you wanna have a conversation, you either wanna spend my hard earned money or you want to do something weird and spiritual after you’ve already had some sort of mental breakdown and then you want to gaslight me into thinking that I am crazy for having some sort of reaction when you’ve literally been in a mental institution for having a breakdown for going to places like this | Character attack |
| 430 | 6/6/2025 8:15:09 PM | You will not gaslight me and you will not manipulate me | Character attack |
| 431 | 6/6/2025 8:20:44 PM | Leave me alone | Hostile dismissal |
| 432 | 6/6/2025 8:28:44 PM | Like I said, you’re trying to bring up the past which has nothing to do with this discussion whatsoever to manipulate because that’s what you’re good at because you’re trying to get your way into going on this day trip by yourself and it’s not happening. Now you’re lying because drawing a boundary and telling you no is not seeing red and is not flying off the handles you just don’t like hearing the word no so stop exaggerating. You’re trying to bait me into getting upset and it’s not happening. Nobody saw red and nobody flew off the handle. I just simply told you no and that I’m drawing a boundary. Those are my exact words so please stop lying and stop manipulating. You’ve been doing a lot of lying lately and it’s disgusting and you need to stop. Just like telling jobs that you’ve had my clients and things like that. It starts with that and now you’re saying that I flew off the handle and saw red. That is the biggest lie just because I drew boundary and I told you no. | Demeaning/InsultDirect lie accusation |
| 433 | 6/6/2025 8:32:29 PM | Please stop lying | Direct lie accusation |
| 434 | 6/6/2025 8:34:36 PM | Please leave me alone, I’m not engaging in anymore of this. The truth of the matter is you’ve put us through a lot and now you’re trying to take advantage of me and I won’t allow it. | Hostile dismissal |
| 435 | 6/7/2025 9:00:15 AM | That’s funny because you never let me drive your car | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 436 | 6/7/2025 9:14:08 AM | I’ve spent so much time helping you prep for your interviews, ironing and picking out your clothes and you don’t appreciate me at all. Instead you plan trips on my birthday weekend like really? That’s next level narcissist! | Character attack |
| 437 | 6/7/2025 10:31:28 PM | I’m sorry we had that stupid fight. I really am. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 438 | 6/20/2025 8:53:25 PM | I feel like there’s this pattern with you. You only like me when I’m doing well, making good money etc. The second you need anything from me I drop everything for you and help you. The only time you wanna show up as a partner is when it’s convenient for you. whenever I need something, for example today when I needed you to look at a financial discrepancy, it was a burden for you and that seems to be a pattern with you. You never wanna show up for me. I realize that more and more now. You want me to go to a meditation retreat with you but you won’t go to church with me, not even once. It hurts to have these kinds of epiphanies, but then again the truth hurts. It’s better for me to have them now and communicate them instead of years from now. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 439 | 6/20/2025 9:04:00 PM | I felt like you were calling me stupid. It wasn’t that I didn’t understand how to do it. It was that I didn’t understand how we went from paying $198 to now having to pay over $300. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 440 | 6/20/2025 9:12:01 PM | It felt like you’re coming at me, saying you do everything for me and all this stuff that’s not true and saying I can’t do a simple task calling me dumb when I was just being respectful and communicating a financial situation | Demeaning/Insult |
| 441 | 6/20/2025 9:19:04 PM | I’m just expressing to you that I’m hurt over the way that you spoke to me earlier. Like that’s not OK. I just don’t want you to take advantage of me because of who I am now. Just because I’m not going to retreat to who I was doesn’t mean I’m not going to defend myself. It doesn’t mean that I will allow myself to be disrespected. The vibe was very much like, are you an idiot? Can you not do a simple task? Why do I have to do everything for you? Which is insane to me because that is not true at all, not even a little bit. It actually made me cry. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 442 | 7/19/2025 7:32:58 PM | You talk about me being charismatic, etc. everyone who doesn’t really know you thinks you’re so nice and gentle and with me you’re so mean and cruel. You’re only nice to me when you want to sleep with me then you treat me like shit afterwards, which makes me feel horrible inside. | Profanity/Insult |
| 443 | 7/19/2025 8:07:25 PM | Also you need to stop being verbally abusive and making up lies about me when you’re the one lying to recruiters saying you did work for Caldera and Lab when you never did. That was my gig. I wrote all of their web copy and articles for their lifestyle brand! So stop lying! You’re the one projecting, you’re the one making up lies to make yourself look better, not me! I have nothing to lie about. Why would I want to be with someone who says that about that about me and tries to take my wins as their own? | Direct lie accusationBlame/accusation patternCharacter attack |
| 444 | 8/1/2025 3:28:20 PM | My academic advisor called and left a vm about a missing assignment and how she didn’t want me to start falling behind etc. after doing so well to try and stress me out in like I’m sick lady leave me alone! | Hostile dismissal |
| 445 | 8/5/2025 3:16:39 PM | The card malfunctioned and charged my account instead many teachers are having this issue so stupid on their part | Demeaning/Insult |
| 446 | 8/10/2025 2:39:46 PM | This isn’t about them, it’s about you and me, that’s what I’m trying to tell you. I want you listen and not have to get so upset that I start crying and get headaches because you upset me so much when you disregard me, I wanted to talk to you before it got to that point but here I am crying in our bedroom again feeling worthless | Demeaning/Insult |
| 447 | 8/10/2025 2:45:02 PM | I know you’re talking badly about me with your Dad, that’s where you get the whole “Cristina show” from I’m not dumb. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 448 | 8/10/2025 2:51:39 PM | You never engage with my family or ask them how they’re doing or feeling you just sit there mute all the time, yet I’m expected to ask everyone how they’re doing? How’s that fair? | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 449 | 8/29/2025 3:54:28 PM | I don’t need somebody threatening me and using my anxiety against me that’s not love | Fear/intimidation |
| 450 | 8/29/2025 4:24:42 PM | Neither did you, two way street but you never do so…. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 451 | 8/29/2025 4:34:11 PM | You were just looking for an excuse not to go! So pathetic! You’re not a good husband to me. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 452 | 8/29/2025 4:35:43 PM | I actually have a text that explicitly asked how your day was but you never ask how my day is going never! Because you don’t care! | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 453 | 8/29/2025 4:36:01 PM | It’s not gaslighting it’s the truth. You don’t know the definition of gaslighting. Maybe you need to look it up because there’s a picture of you. | Character attack |
| 454 | 8/29/2025 4:55:43 PM | Not at all, I know exactly what I said you will not gaslight me or put words in my mouth. I remember exactly what I said and exactly how it went down and then you started bringing up all sorts of nonsense about my family not liking you and my grandma not even speaking English and all this nonsense when you know that none of that is true you were just looking for an excuse not to go And not to show up for me | Character attack |
| 455 | 8/29/2025 5:01:08 PM | Why should I wanna be with somebody who doesn’t admit to their faults? Why do I wanna be in a marriage where I’m the only one apologizing when I know I’m not the only one wrong. Why do I wanna spend the rest of my years stroking someone’s ego and walking on eggshells because someone cannot take any type of constructive criticism because they’re so delicate? All you know how to keep doing is keep calling me a Gaslighter when you’re the one gaslighting it’s it’s insane to me. It’s literally the definition of insanity right now. | Character attack |
| 456 | 9/9/2025 5:03:51 PM | No way bae, I’m trying to be best friends again why would I make a dumb move to take 20 steps backwards? I was really calm and kind to you, you have me all wrong. Completely! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 457 | 9/10/2025 4:57:41 PM | I’m really proud of you for doing this. I never knew your story in detail because you never shared it, but your speech sounds great. I want you to know that I think you’re brave. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 458 | 9/16/2025 8:31:01 PM | It’s 8:30!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 459 | 9/18/2025 11:04:24 AM | I’m really hurt. I work so hard to provide for this family and you’ve been hiding this from me and I’ve been having to lean on my parents when we are short when you were making money this whole time. I just feel betrayed. | Betrayal accusation |
| 460 | 9/21/2025 11:45:08 AM | I don’t think you understand where I was coming from even though I just explained it, you never put yourself in other people’s shoes | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 461 | 10/2/2025 10:32:11 AM | I haven’t done anything to you. I remember being upset over you losing several jobs and having to go back to work when Cruz was a tiny baby and not being emotionally or physically ready, don’t turn that around on me my feelings are valid! I’ve tried apologizing to you but I was going through a lot myself that you failed to acknowledge or have any empathy for. You need help! This isn’t worth tearing our family apart. I’ve tried so hard to rebuild but I’m putting up the bricks by myself. See a therapist or something but stop blaming me for your incompetence. I’ve done nothing to you, bringing up the past out of the blue is insane after we’ve already talked about until we’re blue in the face, let it go or leave me alone! I could keep harping on my hurts and what you put me through as woman and mother but I’m not, I’m choosing to live and love in the present and be grateful for what I have. | Hostile dismissal |
| 462 | 10/2/2025 10:46:40 AM | Gaslighting is exactly what you’ve been doing to me for months are you kidding me? Love bombing me only to tear me down again | Character attack |
| 463 | 10/2/2025 10:47:49 AM | Me too, it’s not going anywhere a narcissist cannot recognize his own faults | Character attack |
| 464 | 10/8/2025 2:53:46 PM | That doesn’t give you the right to be unfaithful in any way | Betrayal accusation |
| 465 | 10/8/2025 9:54:02 PM | I’m am none of those things how dare you accuse me of that. You’ve only received one unemployment check and I’ve gotten one haircut and style last month that was my money $250 plus my overtime from journalism camp that had helped us make a full mortgage payment so please stop lying as I have proof. I will start living for me and not allow you to make me feel guilty for doing so, I work very hard and deserve a quality life. | Direct lie accusation |
| 466 | 10/12/2025 12:40:11 PM | I don’t appreciate you calling me an asshole when i didn’t call you any names and I am always hustling and cleaning this whole house mostly by myself plus working full time and taking care of the kids. | Profanity/Insult |
| 467 | 10/12/2025 1:03:49 PM | This conversation is over as it’s not productive and you’re making false assumptions. As my counselor has said you cannot argue with crazy, you’ll just exhaust yourself and risk your own mental health. I’ve admitted that I need to heal parts of me that have been hurt, you need to do the same. Living in denial and lying saying you don’t have schizoaffective disorder is just delusional when you do. I should have listened when your ex-girlfriend reached out to me instead of blocked her. She was probably trying to warn me. | Character attack |
| 468 | 10/15/2025 12:12:54 PM | Wow!!! That’s a good sign. | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 469 | 10/23/2025 11:22:16 AM | I’m kind of glad you changed your mind, you’ve been working hard on your speech and it deserves to be showcased. You never know who you could be helping. My 9th graders are working on a cool unit where they write their own original Ted Talks based on a Ted Talk we analyzed for central ideas and text structures. Their final proposals are due tonight. I’m excited to see what they come up with. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 470 | 10/31/2025 9:27:09 PM | Hey honey, I’m getting a little paranoid. Are you sure it’s not the Sanford airport and it’s the Orlando? | Character attack |
| 471 | 11/1/2025 11:26:59 PM | If you can’t accept me being honest about my feelings I don’t know what to tell you. Saying I’m like my mom is just toxic and not true | Character attack |
| 472 | 11/1/2025 11:41:59 PM | I’m not treating you like shit at all | Profanity/Insult |
| 473 | 11/1/2025 11:48:40 PM | Again with the gaslighting | Character attack |
| 474 | 11/9/2025 5:28:48 PM | Yay!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 475 | 11/11/2025 11:55:55 AM | Yes it is how exciting!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 476 | 11/11/2025 8:13:58 PM | Laundry, bathrooms, bedrooms, painting our walls, deep cleaning the kitchen and the floors it’s all me! I’m tired!!! | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 477 | 11/11/2025 9:27:03 PM | You hurt me with what you said, I can’t forgive you. I don’t want to go on this trip with you. I will not allow myself to get hurt and betrayed again | Betrayal accusation |
| 478 | 11/12/2025 6:18:35 AM | I’m still feeling hurt. We were in such a good place, now I feel like I can’t talk to you or ask questions without you making false assumptions about me. I’m having trouble trusting you and feeling close to you. This isn’t something Mary can fix, we have to fix it. We need real marriage counseling, we need to be able to talk about things. I’m a communicator I don’t think Mary‘s methods are helping me. I not able to address where I need help or talk. What she’s offering is not what I need. I’m having a lot of trouble navigating your memory loss, when I tell you what you said hurt me you deny it over and over again because you don’t remember saying it and that drives me insane like you’re purposely gaslighting me instead of owning up to what you just said! That makes me feel so hurt and angry. I am not one to easily let something like this go and sweep it under the rug because you always go for the jugular and bring up things I said years ago instead of taking ownership for things that you said last night. I’m not okay and I’m going to work sleep deprived and with cried out puffy eyes from last night while you get to rest and hopefully reflect. • Cristina Frisz reacted with on 11/22/2025 8:42:51 PM | Blame/accusation patternCharacter attack |
| 479 | 11/22/2025 2:09:35 PM | Hey I’m sorry about my tone regarding the dawn soap, that was dumb. I’m just stressed because I’ve planned to take this break to deep clean and organize the house but I’m low on energy | Demeaning/Insult |
| 480 | 11/23/2025 4:37:12 PM | Harness neuroscience and mindfulness to cultivate greater happiness, love, and wisdom. You don't want to miss it! | Warning/intimidation |
| 481 | 12/2/2025 4:26:40 PM | You always go to such a mean and hurtful place whenever we have a disagreement, I wish you would just stay calm and levelheaded so we can really discuss things. I’m feeling really hurt. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 482 | 12/8/2025 9:44:12 AM | Brandis thinks it’s beyond ADHD he has anger management, personality disorder. Jacob told me this morning that Scott talks to him like shit says things like “shut the fuck up and stay the fuck outside until I tell you to come home” etc | Profanity/Insult |
| 483 | 12/8/2025 1:24:11 PM | I wrote you a poem during my lunch break today: For my loving husband. Sea Souls We are two sea souls, born of tides and soft horizons, drawn toward each other long before we even knew the shape of our forever. We met once— three years before our real beginning— when my heart was still stitching itself back together after storms I never deserved. I wasn’t ready then; I was learning to breathe again, to trust the quiet, to heal. And still, some part of me felt the pull of you, like a distant lighthouse I wasn’t yet strong enough to sail toward. But when the tides turned and I finally found my calm again, there you were— steady, warm, waiting without waiting. And from that second first date, we were inseparable, as if the universe whispered, Now. You, with your quiet strength, meet each day like the ocean meets the shore— persistent, patient, undefeated. Even when your body fights its hidden battles, you move with grace, teaching me what resilience truly looks like. I watch you with our child, a father whose love is steady as the tide, whose laughter turns our world into morning light. Your hands build memories; your heart anchors us. And still— you never stop surprising me. The thoughtful dates you plan, the adventures you crave, the way your spirit says yes to joy, to life, to us. You turn ordinary days into wide-open skies. We were meant for this— for finding each other twice, for loving each other in every tomorrow still waiting to rise. My forever is an ocean, and you are the horizon I will always swim toward. I love you, always Chris. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 484 | 12/8/2025 1:47:31 PM | Honey! I received an A on my final paper!!! my GPA is a 4.0 | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 485 | 12/16/2025 3:31:35 PM | Okay, please just leave me alone about this. Just respect my peace because I also have to study for a big exam that determines me keeping my job also during the break so I’m just trying to one bite at a time. | Hostile dismissal |
| 486 | 12/16/2025 3:33:03 PM | I don’t wanna fight with you. I just want you to respect my peace like I just have a lot on my plate and I don’t need another thing and you always tell me to leave you alone in a disrespectful tone, but I’m trying to tell you in a nice way that I don’t wanna deal with this right now. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 487 | 12/16/2025 4:00:20 PM | Being upset with me over something that makes me uncomfortable and is not what I want for my mental health, is emotionally abusive, so please don’t be that way. I never said I’m not going to do it. I just said that I need time and space to think about what’s best for me first I don’t wanna keep talking about this. I want to put a cap in it, but that’s where I wanna end it. | Character attack |
| 488 | 12/18/2025 3:18:48 PM | You must be really delusional. If you don’t see that the past two days I come home, exhausted from work and I’ve taken care of him by myself for several hours | Character attack |
| 489 | 12/18/2025 3:20:37 PM | You’re so ungrateful like you’re being really disgusting right now. You really don’t see everything that I do? | Demeaning/Insult |
| 490 | 12/18/2025 3:21:57 PM | Just admit that you’re wrong and stop being such a fucking prick | Profanity/Insult |
| 491 | 12/18/2025 3:22:13 PM | You’re really pissing me off right now. I’m tired of being the nice one. You’re being disgusting and I want nothing to do with you. Leave me alone when you come home. Do not talk to me. | Demeaning/InsultHostile dismissal |
| 492 | 12/18/2025 3:45:24 PM | You can talk shit about me to all your little friends, but everybody knows that I’ve carried us financially for years and I’m the reason this house gets cleaned | Profanity/Insult |
| 493 | 12/19/2025 7:48:10 PM | Sometimes during the sessions, it felt like I was reliving bad experiences that I didn’t wanna relive like when my second grade teacher called me stupid, and ostracized me in front of the class before knowing that I was losing my hearing and before I had to have those multiple surgeries to improve the quality of my hearing I was only seven years old | Demeaning/Insult |
| 494 | 1/5/2026 11:13:10 AM | Okay, because he’s randomly told me things in the past like you telling me to “fuck off” etc. I just wanna make sure this is clear. I don’t wanna fight with you. I just wanna make sure this is clear cause it’s important to me to protect him. Thank you | Profanity/Insult |
| 495 | 1/15/2026 12:38:04 PM | Oh okay, ugh I forgot I have that stupid test at 6 PM, but I think I should still have time | Demeaning/Insult |
| 496 | 1/17/2026 7:29:48 PM | Hey honey, I passed!!! Calling an Uber now, just got out of exam | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 497 | 1/21/2026 10:46:13 PM | You’re scaring Jacob, and he’s threatening to call his Dad | Fear/intimidation |
| 498 | 1/29/2026 6:21:59 PM | Do you miss me too? I just feel like you never really ask about me or my well-being unless I reach out. It’s giving me a lot of clarity. It’s disappointing | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 499 | 2/2/2026 2:55:16 PM | I’m just really irritable because I truly feel like shit like my head is pounding and my whole body hurts | Profanity/Insult |
| 500 | 2/2/2026 2:57:05 PM | Like it’s saying first day take two tablets before breakfast and one tablet after lunch and after supper two tablets at bedtime and I’m like what the fuck I just picked these up so I’m not sure what to do | Profanity/Insult |
| 501 | 2/4/2026 4:37:05 PM | One more day and that’s it! This house has been difficult to maintain on my own and I’ve been doing that. I told you that I’m feeling better and Jacob is healthy and has been healthy I am not contagious and I’m tired of this being used as an excuse! I’m exhausted from fucking doing everything which is what got me sick in the first place. Not seeing my son isn’t helping me. If he doesn’t come home tomorrow, I will show up with my parents to come pick him up because I have parents too. This doesn’t feel right to me at all. | Profanity/Insult |
| 502 | 2/8/2026 9:56:14 PM | I’m sorry I am venting all of this out on you, the Epstein files were released today some of them, and Trump is all over them, as expected but it’s just disgusting | Demeaning/Insult |
| 503 | 2/13/2026 3:40:12 PM | Either we try to talk this out or I’ll just start the process in filing for divorce, because life is too short. I just want to be heard and resolve ongoing issues, if that can’t be done, let’s separate because going backand-forth and going nowhere it’s just not worth it for me anymore. I’m tired of you always running away and not resolving our issues. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 504 | 3/11/2026 10:09:20 AM | I know I don’t tell you this as often as I should, but I really admire you in so many ways. I love your ability to stay calm during stressful situations and the way you are as a father, your calm but stern demeanor when necessary is really impressive. The fact that you never complain about your pain but always take action. I love all these things about you and more. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 505 | 3/16/2026 3:32:36 PM | Bae they’re saying it’s about Progressive insurance??? | Aggressive punctuation (!!!/??) |
| 506 | 3/17/2026 1:12:40 PM | Saying that you left calmly is a form of gaslighting as you slammed the door and I’m not gonna put up with you categorizing me falsely | Character attack |
| 507 | 3/25/2026 7:06:21 PM | He just pooped in the tub too it was absolutely disgusting!! | Demeaning/Insult |
| 508 | 3/27/2026 9:54:24 PM | I’ve never touched you, you called me “a fucken bitch” and I gently tapped your back and told you not to curse in front of him. Stop lying. | Profanity/InsultDirect lie accusation |
| 509 | 3/27/2026 10:50:26 PM | Please leave me alone. I will not entertain this. | Hostile dismissal |
| 510 | 4/12/2026 5:51:42 AM | Your behavior is erratic. Being loving towards me one minute before Easter then turning cold the next without reason. You are picking fights with me out of thin air by bringing up the past out of nowhere, when there’s peace. I could bring up past hurts that you’ve caused too, but I choose not to. You create a toxic environment, getting defensive over a newsletter and cursing at me over it and making nonexistent assumptions out of your paranoia. I can’t have a simple or remotely intellectual conversation with you. You don’t have the tools and go straight to name calling when you can’t answer a question. You add more stress to my life with my already full plate. We were doing just fine, then you pick a fight in order to avoid attending any of my family events. Like my grandma’s 87th birthday coming up. I recognize this pattern from you and it’s selfish. You guilted me into going to your family’s event for Easter when my family made plans way in advance. I dropped their plans for you, and let my family down. I’ve learned my lesson. You can attend your family events alone from now on since that’s what you repeatedly do to me. You neglect me constantly. This is not a marriage. You don’t show up for me, why should I continue to consistently show up for you? I will continue to be amicable for the sake of Cruz and Jacob, please respect me in front of my boys. I am their mom. Do not call me names etc. or speak to me in a derogatory way. I am not interested in spending time with you alone right now because all you do is put me down and pick fights. I need my space from you. Your emotional abuse has caused me enough pain and I don’t want to be around someone who likes to hurt me. I will not allow you to have power over my emotions anymore. I am so tired of crying and hurting over you. It has caused me both much emotional and physical pain. You are not good for me in your current state and I don’t want to be around that. I don’t want your negativity to sabotage everything I’ve worked hard for. For now, let’s just be kind and considerate, pay our bills, and stay in our lane. | Character attack |
| 511 | 4/12/2026 1:37:32 PM | I’ve tried to continue counseling with you but you never seem to want to go past one session. One session alone is not going to fix our issues. Accountability on both sides is the only hope for us at this point, but I can’t do it alone. | Blame/accusation pattern |
| 512 | 4/22/2026 9:28:36 AM | You’ve been lying and manipulating me our whole relationship. Lying about your diagnosis taking secret doctors calls at your parents house so I wouldn’t hear etc. I’m so tired of being lied to and manipulated by you. I’ve always been honest with you about everything. I never deserved this level of betrayal. You should be ashamed of yourself! | Betrayal accusation |
| 513 | 4/22/2026 9:37:00 AM | Whatever it is you’re doing behind my back, the truth will come out, it always does. Don’t ask me questions anymore or badger me about my whereabouts if you refuse be honest yourself. I don’t owe you anything anymore. I’m done trying to be your friend. You cannot be trusted. You’re a narcissist and a liar. | Character attack |
| 514 | 4/25/2026 7:04:40 PM | Cruz’s is telling me that you tell him toxic things like you don’t love anyone else in our house, just him. Even if you do feel that way, please don’t say things like that to a 3 year old. | Character attack |
| 515 | 4/27/2026 3:30:55 PM | You lied! You didn’t help me with any of the chores | Direct lie accusation |
| 516 | 5/2/2026 10:15:19 AM | You sat down with me and made a spreadsheet of expenses of how much I would need to make on my own to keep the house. You promised me you wouldn’t fight me for the house and now you’re going back on your word. That’s very manipulative. | Character attack |
| 517 | 5/2/2026 10:22:21 AM | Yes you did! That’s why we made a spreadsheet of my expenses. If you try to fight me for this house, it will not end well for you. You’re such a liar. This is disgusting behavior. | Demeaning/Insult |
| 518 | 5/4/2026 4:33:31 PM | That’s you, you pick fights over dumb things and after you lied to me about the house, I don’t trust a word that comes out of your mouth. | Demeaning/InsultDirect lie accusationBetrayal accusation |